In this episode, Helen and I unpack the uncomfortable truth about manipulation in coaching and personal growth. From authority claims and social proof to trauma bonding, love bombing, and cult-like dynamics, we explore how influence can quietly become coercion.
We look at red flags – dependency on the teacher, blocked disagreement, emotional state manipulation, endless upselling – and also the subtler traps like vague language, borrowed authority, and identity-based pressure. We also talk about green flags: teachers who evolve, encourage challenge, build self-trust, and genuinely want students to outgrow them.
This isn’t about attacking the coaching industry – we’re part of it. It’s about discernment. Whether you’re a coach, leader, or client, this conversation will help you spot unhealthy dynamics and build integrity into your work.
See more of Helen’s work here: yogarogue.co.uk
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